Sunday, August 21, 2005

Because you're concerned.

Many times, the roots of which we call reason are practically and effectively similar. This is especially so touching on the topic of 'Concern', pure genuine concern.

I recently read that the subconscious side of us influences our decisions, thoughts and ultimately actions pretty much to a favourable extent. One you can call large. I've been pondering on the topic for a long time, and came up with a few conclusions. In short, I kind of agree with the statement.

We often find ourselves in situations which we feel the other party is more than just a nag and nuisance. It's always easy to judge people, but never easy to take a step back and think about what others really are. This occurs to most people, myself included. What we perceive as negative attributes, such as nervousness, anxiety, anger etc are most of the times fueled by positive intentions. Our judgement is often influenced by the negative attributes, but by stepping back and think about things carefully, we find ourselves seeing more positive intentions.

It is often crucial before any competition, major or minor to be able to keep calm. I strongly despise asshats and dumbfucks who would stoop low at any level to criticise people who aren't able to keep their nerve, and even calling them names like 'Nervous-wrecker', 'Pussy' or whatever crap shit of that genre. I feel that such people do not even realise how anxiety and nervousness about a competition is more than often caused by concern, concern for the competition. To put it simply, why give more than half a damn when the competition/event means nothing to you?

I apologise for sounding a little harsh, because the auditions are still getting to me. I was nervous, but nobody criticised me for it. I just had to make a tiny link. Anyhow, in most relationships, I think it's important to be able to take a step back at all times to look at the entire situation carefully. Jealousy, possesiveness and feelings of those genre are common in relationships. But, do think closely, and try to relate concern to those so-called negative feelings. Or even nonsensical, irritable reactions, whatever you might call it.

As always, Ivan loves making conclusions using relationships. But remember, do everything in moderation. Just nice, don't overkill.

posted@12:45 PM

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